We thought about how weird it would be to communicate this over the internet, but since you’ve been following along on the blog for years now, we thought we would try to use it one last time to express this last part of our journey together. After 8 years, we have decided to go our separate ways. Most of the story will remain just between the two of us, but we thought it was important to express some things. As always, we are making our own path, and our own rules, through this chapter in our lives. Separating the individuals from the partnership has taken great friendship, understanding and laughter. Looking back, those characteristics were what brought us together in the first place. This mutual decision came this past spring, but it took months to sort out how to do it, and how to tell our families.
Since early June, Jesse has been living in the Buddhist temple where our very good friend Ichi is the caretaker. Lindsay is staying at the house with Sam and Greta. We’re working towards selling the house as early as next spring.
We are endlessly appreciative of our families and closest friends who have loved and supported us all the way through.
Please feel free to contact us through the cell numbers and emails you have.
Lindsay and Jesse
This is the last post for ‘Life at 3021.’
Well theres plenty of fish in the sea jesse, dont sweat it.. nah just messin, seriously really sorry to hear it, you guys seemed to really work well as a team and have lots of stuff in common and most importantly seemed to have a good time together. I’m glad you guys are trying to make it a rational break up and not full of hate and bitterness like so many people do, just cause you break up does not mean you have to break all friendships and take sides and all that nasty stuff that happens to so many people, way to do it with class and true care for one another, hopefully love will strike agin for both of you thats a better fit as you are both really cool and awesome people trying to do good stuff for the world so much love to both of you guys and i hope things pan out nicely and life goes on and on and on.
By: Moussa Kone on September 22, 2009
at 10:52 pm
hey you two – just wanted to let you know i read your blog and as much as it is sad to hear you are splitting up, i so completely understand the reality of how that feels – the rawness, bravery, fear & excitement all combined into one strange emotion. i wish you both the very best of everything and really believe that you will both find your own true paths to happiness. take good care of yourselves. much love, stina
By: stina on September 23, 2009
at 12:16 am
to be honest the whole thing breaks my heart
godspeed
By: mmccullough on October 1, 2009
at 3:33 pm